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The Calm Before The Music
December 14, 2021

‘The Calm before the Music’

by Jenny Capstick, Music Therapist, MusAbility

As a Music Therapist, I often ponder about the session ahead. Whilst driving to a client’s home, walking down a hallway, or waiting in a therapy room for my client to arrive. I ask myself questions such as “What will there be? Will there be sound? What will we do in the silence? Will we recognise when to start, stop and continue? Will we connect in the music? Does this stuff really work!?”

We can never know what the future holds, though as creative psychotherapists, I believe we can attune to the multiple possibilities, so we are ready to connect, react, and ground whatever comes our way.

It is important for a therapist to know how they react with control, power, loss, change, and sharing.

I am neurodiverse, as are many of my clients, each in our individual way. You may notice my neurodiversity through my writing style! My mind does not think in a linear sense. It will not be taken down a straight path without wondering “what is behind that tree to the left?”. Relatively, in my professional work, I am always looking to pull out the grey, question, and shake things up a little. Contrastingly, my clients may enjoy and find comfort in routine, linearity, and pre-emptive organisation.

Preparing for a music therapy session, I find it necessary to prepare for the grey, the unknown, and the mess. This allows me to pre-empt how the music may look and grow in a safe, grounded relationship between client and therapist. Therefore, when the music comes, we can simply acknowledge the shape and colour.

When preparing the therapy room, I must consider my client’s preferences, anxieties, comforts…

“How will I set up the instruments?”

“Where did the piano sit last session?”

“Do I have a clear story board ready?”

(“where are the egg timers?!”).

 

We cannot pre-empt every event.

The bus may be late.

Our friend may forget about our coffee date.

Our Brother may not lock the front door.

 

When preparing the therapy room for the music ahead, we must ask ourselves, “will there be something unexpected?” = Of course!! We must remind ourselves every time… THIS IS OK. If we prepare and reflect well, we are better equipped for the moments something out of the ordinary happens. We go through the motions together, though as the therapist, we can provide the grounding element where our client may struggle to stay rooted. We model how to flow with the waves and cope with the highs and lows. We are the anchor when the storm takes hold….

If we prepare to panic, where would our client land in the unexpected?

 

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